'I have brightness in me again and I feel happiness. I feel that I can take on any learning challenge, and I never used to feel that'
Blue Smile helps over 200 children a week to be happier and have brighter futures. Having started in Cambridge with whole teams in Partner Schools, our additional mobile Outreach team of independent therapists is spreading out county-wide to help communities and schools in most need.
As well as providing children with one-to-one therapy, Blue Smile directly supports both schools and parents to help their children through our extensive Menu of Services.
We pride ourselves on the quality of our service
of parents say their child improved because of Blue Smile
of children with very worrying mental health issues improved
of teachers say their child improved because of Blue Smile
Our success stories
Stacey’s story of anxiety*
Stacey cried every day about going to school. Once there, she stayed at her desk, arranging her pens and books precisely and objecting if her classmates touched anything. When taught by a supply teacher one day, Stacey stayed completely still and then wet herself. Her school was aware that Stacey’s father had been imprisoned the previous year and her mother was being treated for depression. After agreement from her mum, Stacey’s school referred her to Blue Smile.
Initially, Stacey ignored her therapist and instead concentrated on rearranging the toys in the room, saying she was ‘clearing up a mess’. She gradually built up enough trust to suggest shyly that she herself might ‘make a mess’ and set about creating storms in the sand-tray. She included a policeman figure who was also a ‘mess maker’. By exploring Stacey’s fears of ‘mess’ and ‘storms’, her therapist helped her manage and transform them. Eventually the policeman became a ‘rescuer’, someone who Stacey said kept children safe. Her mother reported she had been able to express that prison visits frightened her because she thought she was ‘bad’ and might be put in prison too.
Stacey started to participate more in class, was able to learn and make friends and was happy to come to school; her mum found her happier and calmer at home too.
Layla’s story of family breakdown*
Layla had become withdrawn and quiet since the start of the new school term, not wanting to play with her friends or speak to adults about what might be worrying her. Wanting to help, her school contacted Blue Smile and Layla was matched up with her psychotherapist.
Each week, they spent time together, exploring the play and art therapy resources and building a trusting relationship. Soon Layla become comfortable enough to share her feelings with her therapist and reveal that her parents were getting divorced and that her father had left the family home without warning.
Gradually, Layla came to terms with this enormous change: depicting in her play and art work two families, rather than the fragmented family that had shocked her so much. She was able to heal, socialise with her friends and take part in school again.
Nathan’s story of self-harm*
Nathan was a nine-year-old boy who was struggling in school because he’d become aggressive towards both adults and children, lost his friends and needed to be managed outside the classroom. Nathan was referred to Blue Smile to see if therapy might help with his anger and distress.
In his first therapy sessions, Nathan chose an ‘attacker monster’ toy, which each week would ‘crash into’ and destroy smaller creatures. One day, Nathan came to a session with a large bruise on his forehead and it became clear to Nathan’s therapist that he’d been hitting his head against his bedroom wall “to crash the bad monsters out of my head”. Following a meeting with Nathan’s mother, she revealed that he’d witnessed a violent fight around the same time that his father left. Nathan seemed to feel that fights needed to be won or people would disappear from his life.
Slowly, Nathan’s once angry monster turned into a friendly monster, and, in school, he learned to control his temper and made a new group of friends. He even went to his first sleepover, taking his ‘friendly monster’ with him.
* All details have been changed to protect a child’s anonymity
Blue Smile Heroes are people who face an obstacle, a challenge, a fear or a new adventure to raise money for the little heroes who use our services. They are people who go the extra mile and exhibit courage and commitment to support Blue Smile. It’s a personal journey as well as a fundraising effort.
Blue Smile Heroes:
- Select a genuine personal challenge to raise funds.
- Get others involved. We all need supporters who will encourage us and cheer us on!
- Raise £500 or more that will help Blue Smile be there for all the children who need us.
Blue Smile Heroes are recognised with a special T-Shirt that can only be obtained once Hero status has been earned and a certificate that confirms that you are indeed a hero!
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